Have you ever felt white hot searing anger? The desire to break something? To destroy anything in sight, to shout profane abuses? To curse a lot ? I felt all that a few moments ago. Thankfully I didn't break anything. Last time I broke my phone.
Those who are married would know what I am talking about.
The subject of the conversation or the reason for anger is secondary. These things are bound to happen. There are times when you will feel anger and pain. There are times when your ego and that of your spouse would be bruised. A man/woman is nothing without the ego or self.
Some people just forget about it, and move on. While other harp on it for a few hours or days.
In the end it is calmness of the mind that matters.
For instance, I just closed the door took a few deep breaths and started writing this post.
I am ready to have a conversation to resolve the issue, but my wife isn't.
Instead of getting angry, I'll just move on and wait till she is ready to have a conversation.
Those who are married would know what I am talking about.
The subject of the conversation or the reason for anger is secondary. These things are bound to happen. There are times when you will feel anger and pain. There are times when your ego and that of your spouse would be bruised. A man/woman is nothing without the ego or self.
Some people just forget about it, and move on. While other harp on it for a few hours or days.
In the end it is calmness of the mind that matters.
For instance, I just closed the door took a few deep breaths and started writing this post.
I am ready to have a conversation to resolve the issue, but my wife isn't.
Instead of getting angry, I'll just move on and wait till she is ready to have a conversation.
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